Maybe you might be better off if you read this book. Yes I know that is one hell of a judgement and maybe I haven't even met you but I do think a best seller in philosophy has something to offer.
Wiki tells me this book was rejected by 121 publishers before becoming a best seller which set a Guinness record for most rejections for a best selling novel. Maybe just a Chautauqua, maybe just a book, I dunno, I already stopped reading that page. Certain my suggesting the book has nothing to do with my moto love, nor do I consider myself very philosophical.
Let go and let Zen. Empty beer cans make good shims, it might be ok to smoke in certain Western diners and romantics are ok even if you would rather they not be.
Do some maintenance.